Delve Self

Sometimes, we couldn't assess ourselves. We could analyze what the strengths and shortcomings of others. However, he was not able to analyze what the advantages and disadvantages. So what should be done by a person to be able to assess themselves?

First, be open to criticism and suggestions from others. When people criticize you, of course, he would have grounds to criticize you. The criticism of the statement, you can find out about yourself. For example, when someone is criticizing you as a person who overreacting, then you can tell from the criticism and the statement of reasons that support that you are a person who likes excessive. It's easy, is not it? Only one thing you should do, is open.

Second, do not deny. Don't deny any statement is certainly true and expressed as a form of self-assessment of your own. It's as willing to accept advice and suggestions from others. It has to do with the attitude of the first, open. If you continue to persist do not want to accept the judgment of others about you, but has clearly been correct, then you like hard rock that is difficult to be carved as a beautiful work of art.

Third, cleverly receive. Remember, first and second attitude is important,
but this third attitude as a determinant of whether the first and second
attitude should you apply. Cleverly receive gives you an opportunity to think a
second time. You must not accept the opinion of a person, if his opinion is not
yet correct unfounded and unwarranted. Remember, if you take it for granted
that the opinion is not necessarily true, then you like foolish. You have to
think and be denied the above opinion is not necessarily true, but still within
the context of good and polite.

Finally, only you and God are able to see and judge yourself. Frequently introspection because you can find who you are, what you want, how the properties you, and attitudes of what you need to fix. Think of all your behavior, criticism and advice that was brought to you. Introspect ourselves are like people who are diving into the sea. To find out which sea, you have to open your eyes and continue to swing the foot underwater swim cool. That is, if you want to know what kind of person you think it is.

"To know what's in the depth of the sea, open your eyes in the stagnation and keep kicking toward the cold sea's bottom. That is, if you want to know what kind of person you are." (Kou
Ichinomiya from Arakawa Under The Bridge)